沉迷于網(wǎng)絡(luò)游戲 英文:“bos259”
你是否對孩子說過:“你要好好學(xué)習(xí)”?
您是否以玩手機游戲為由,杜絕孩子使用手機?
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第三類、幫孩子建立手機網(wǎng)絡(luò)使用規(guī)則：讓孩子在正常上學(xué)，正常完作業(yè)，正常作息，正常晚上交出手機的前提下，有界限的合理的使用手機網(wǎng)絡(luò)，這也是左養(yǎng)右學(xué)教育賴頌強團隊14年來經(jīng)驗的建議方案，這是屬于民主智慧型。
您是否對孩子的戀愛和追星表現(xiàn)出過多的敵意,甚至極度禁止?
你是否也試過和孩子談心,可是他表現(xiàn)出來的態(tài)度卻是極為不耐煩甚至大吵大鬧?
請問孩子都沉迷于游戲了,又怎么能學(xué)著去理解他的想法呢?
如果你對孩子的行為視而不見,那就證明你們的溝通不是有效的,那你自己的溝通方式是無效的,你這里的溝通方法已經(jīng)不適合給孩子提供有用的信息了。
也許有些父母會說,那我們到底該如何和孩子去溝通?其實溝通就是通過語言表達的方式。
如果你看到孩子玩手機,你可以告訴他:我看到你現(xiàn)在非常的不開心,現(xiàn)在是學(xué)習(xí)時間很緊張,你可以和爸爸說說讓我們先休息一下,一會兒再寫作業(yè)嗎?或者,你可以和我說說你的想法。
最后,我想說的是,在溝通的過程中,最重要的一點是要學(xué)會聆聽。聽也是一個非常簡單的問題,而且要明白孩子的想法,要站在孩子的角度去理解。
如果你能體會到孩子的感受,你就能知道他的需求,而不是照本宣聲,硬碰硬的態(tài)度。
不溝通是大人口中的”逆反”,但如果能用”我理解你的感受”和”我覺得你可以更好的面對這個情緒”,那么我們就能夠有效的去解決這個問題。
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